Thinking about a threesome

http://porn4ladies.tumblr.com/post/22446383871I was talking to a friend today about my current obsession to find a woman that will fuck me, or let me fuck her with a sexy strap-on harness like this. I haven’t decided on the appropriate dildo. I know the Randy that I’ve got is surely too much for most, so I was thinking something more like the Vixen Mustang (reviewed by Ephiphora) or maybe the Bandit (reviewed by Dr. Ruth Neustifter).

The idea of a FFM threesome with strap-ons is admittedly, not my original idea. It is a fantasy of my lover, but I’ve confiscated it and taken it as mine. I don’t know why the idea of it hadn’t occurred to me before. Admittedly, my sex life has been pretty vanilla for the majority of my life, but now I have so many naughty ideas.Any volunteers?

I’m on a quest to find a hot, sexy lady who’s also into being on the giving or receiving end of strap-on dildo sex. I’ve found a few really hot photos online, but finding an actual woman to do this with is much, much harder. I’ve read articles that say ‘just let it happen, don’t talk about it beforehand’. I think that you must talk about what will and won’t happen and what is and isn’t off limits so that everyone involved knows exactly what they’re getting into.

My friend was telling me that for him, there is a huge difference between fucking a super hot woman, and making love to someone you love. I understand that line of thinking, and I think it would be interesting to see how my lover might behave if he were getting into fucking a sexy woman, rather than how we are together. I know I’d have to fight my jealous side, since I know how special he is to me. But the wonderful person that I love is completely separate from his physical body. He also said I might have a hard time with seeing him grunt and moan with another woman, that I’d think ‘why doesn’t he do that with me’ or “am I not hot enough for him?’

I did some research on Yogachikk’s blogsite since she’s written about her experiences with threesomes. I was looking for advice and her repeating theme was communicate, communicate, communicate. You could consider this blog post as one step in the communication process.

I think it might be best for me to find a lady that I feel comfortable around, and then begin telling her what I have in mind. I’ve talked to my lover about the threesome and he’s encouraged me to have my first experience with a woman and a man of my choosing. Since my chosen partners wouldn’t be romantically involved with each other, it wouldn’t have the potential to be muddied up with jealousy as easily. I’m sure I will also find myself comparing my body to her body, and perhaps my body image issues might muddy up an otherwise wonderful experience.

I have a lot to think about, and it’s a very nice thing to think about. If it happens, it happens. If not, no big deal. Just talking about it with the people I’d like to be with is super fucking sexy in any case. We’re all going to get very turned on just by thinking about it, even if it never actually takes place!

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